Sibling’s Rivalry

“kids are lucky enough to become best of friends with their siblings. But is it Possible that this sibling becomes a mortal enemy?”

 In some cases, childrenquarrel not only with their playmates but also with their siblings. Sibling rivalry is reality at all ages. Most brothers and sisters experience some degree of jealousy and competition that can cause rivalry. It’s natural. For kids changing needs, anxieties and identities to affect the way theyrelate to one another. Example, Kids are naturally protective of their toys and belongings and are learning to assert their will, which they do at every given time. So if a brother or sister picks up the toddler’s toy, The younger one reacts aggressively.

 In my Opinion, I can relate so much with this topic, As you can see I usually fight with my younger brother . We argue on small things that both of us makes crazy.This Feud usually happens and maybe its now habit from both of us, Suddenly My Mom and Dad is always there to Persuade both of us, But nothing happens. Who Knows what will happen? I can Call it feud but I can’t say it’s Rivalry.

The Way parents resolve problemsand disagreements sets a strong example for the kids esp. the eldest one who must have a long temper, steady effort, and time to understand, love and care for  their younger siblings. Parents Also must have equal treatment to the children in the family.

These may not be the best solutions but surely it can minimize  if not prevent sibling’s rivalry.